Marriage Counseling in Thousand Oaks: Rebuilding Trust, Intimacy, and Real Connection
Marriage counseling in Thousand Oaks can be a powerful step toward rebuilding the kind of connection you long for—not just less fighting, but more closeness, more trust, and a relationship where intimacy feels safe and fulfilling. At Simi Psychological Group, we work with couples who are ready to dig deeper, beyond surface-level fixes—and address the emotional patterns, communication breakdowns, and disconnection that keep them stuck.
Our goal is never just to “fix problems.” It’s to help you and your partner reconnect at the level that really matters—emotionally, sexually, and relationally.
The Challenges Couples Bring to Therapy
Whether you’ve been together for years or are navigating new chapters of your relationship, you may find yourselves struggling with:
Sexual disconnection or mismatched desire: Intimacy often becomes a source of tension or distance. You may feel rejected, disconnected, or unsure how to talk about what you want or need.
Feeling more like roommates than lovers: The emotional spark and physical closeness may have faded, leaving you feeling alone in your relationship.
Breakdowns in communication: Recurring arguments or complete shutdowns that leave you feeling unheard, unseen, or misunderstood.
Betrayal or loss of trust: Infidelity, secrecy, or long-standing resentments can damage the foundation of a relationship, but healing is possible with support.
Major life transitions or parenting stress: Whether you’re navigating parenting roles, work stress, or big life changes, these shifts often stir up deeper relational dynamics.
These struggles can leave couples feeling overwhelmed or hopeless. But therapy can help you slow things down, understand the deeper emotional drivers underneath your reactions, and create a new way of relating—one where both partners feel emotionally and physically connected again.
Our Approach to Marriage Counseling
At our Thousand Oaks counseling office, we provide a safe, compassionate space where both partners can be heard without blame or judgment. We help you identify the cycles you get stuck in and the vulnerable feelings beneath the surface—so you can connect from a place of honesty, empathy, and desire.
Together, we work on:
Rebuilding emotional and physical intimacy
Understanding and shifting patterns of conflict
Healing from betrayal or emotional shutdown
Opening up communication around sex and desire
Navigating vulnerability and deepening your emotional bond
We believe true connection is about more than solving problems—it’s about creating a relationship where you feel seen, wanted, and supported for who you are.
Why Couples Choose Simi Psychological Group
Simi Psychological Group began in Simi Valley and expanded into Thousand Oaks to better serve couples throughout the Conejo Valley, including Westlake Village, Agoura Hills, Moorpark, and surrounding communities.
What sets us apart is our deep, relational approach. We don’t offer cookie-cutter advice or generic conflict resolution tools. We guide you toward meaningful insight and emotional transformation, so you can reconnect with your partner in ways that feel real and lasting.
Our team of therapists is passionate about working with couples. We help you navigate vulnerable conversations around sex, love, trust, and identity. We hold space for both of you to feel seen, respected, and supported on your path to healing and deeper connection.

